tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1419556613774990234.post5738122873264696223..comments2023-10-07T08:14:09.005-04:00Comments on Canadian Flake: PLEASE GOD , DON'T LET ME BE MY MOMCanadian flakehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00994909147845893087noreply@blogger.comBlogger10125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1419556613774990234.post-26944895050630979812007-07-30T14:56:00.000-04:002007-07-30T14:56:00.000-04:00my mother had a very selective memory too. Of cou...my mother had a very selective memory too. Of course she didn't kick my sister out, she helped her look for a place (yeah right) And she never ever reminded me almost every day that I was supposed to be a boy, and if I was a boy then it would have saved her marraige. She also never ever said, why can't you be more like your sister. <BR/><BR/>We had a hard past, I love her and miss her still. It was really hard to forgive her. I forgive her but I will never forget. <BR/><BR/>I'm proud of you for not taking shit anymore, it's hard to get past that. <BR/><BR/>Sometimes we have to lay down what we accept, and if they can't conform to that then sometimes we are better off. <BR/><BR/>I love ya hun. I'm sending hugs!!!Burficahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08207396583080371466noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1419556613774990234.post-10139504057827309832007-07-30T01:27:00.000-04:002007-07-30T01:27:00.000-04:00I'm so sorry about your troubles with your mom...i...I'm so sorry about your troubles with your mom...i know how difficult it can be and how painful as my mother can also be very hurtful with the things she says. I hope by now you feel a bit better...give yourself a hug, dust yourself off and know that we readers care about you and want you to vent when/if ever you need to.<BR/><BR/>I hope your week is better!jAMiEhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18258005780393500502noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1419556613774990234.post-13601622802245049402007-07-29T20:58:00.000-04:002007-07-29T20:58:00.000-04:00The above commenters have hit the nail on the head...The above commenters have hit the nail on the head here, Flake! We have this online community which is almost like family! Venting your frustrations is very theraputic... especially through writing. Knowing that you have freinds "out there" who care for you is also very helpful. I hope that you can feel all the love and support we are all sending your way!<BR/><BR/>Hope your week is better, my friend!Phoenix5https://www.blogger.com/profile/06717890637366842487noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1419556613774990234.post-63238794671194353812007-07-29T11:20:00.000-04:002007-07-29T11:20:00.000-04:00Me too from Palm Springs Savant. Sorry to have cau...Me too from Palm Springs Savant. Sorry to have caught on a bad day--we all have them too. I'm going to visit my son and daughter-in-law next week and your experience has reminded me to watch my words. My mom was wonderful but oh so critical. Hope you are happier today.Sheilahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17482567840321600439noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1419556613774990234.post-66135269418778244292007-07-29T10:18:00.000-04:002007-07-29T10:18:00.000-04:00Hi...I popped over here from Palm Springs Savant. ...Hi...I popped over here from Palm Springs Savant. I can really understand. My mom does that stuff to me, too...and then she says, "just teasing". No, she's not just teasing and we both know it.<BR/><BR/>Sorry you had a rough time.<BR/>Hope today is better.<BR/>J.Jodihttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07090159134556212125noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1419556613774990234.post-51620857061560384322007-07-29T09:02:00.000-04:002007-07-29T09:02:00.000-04:00Wow! I'm really, really sorry. People can be so s...Wow! I'm really, really sorry. People can be so shitty! They both owe you an apology and I hope you have a better day today.captain corkyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/10782650450297504567noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1419556613774990234.post-68576712585572936012007-07-29T08:09:00.000-04:002007-07-29T08:09:00.000-04:00I'm so sorry!I wish I had some words of wisdom her...I'm so sorry!<BR/>I wish I had some words of wisdom here for you. I can't understand why a mom would do that to her daughter..no matter how old you are.<BR/><BR/>Sounds like her way of showing you love is by teasing you but you don't seem to respond well to that. So I would think that she should know that by now and change her ways a little...<BR/><BR/>I'm so sorry.<BR/>My dad shows his love by being sarcastic and I laugh but sometimes it still stings. SO I get that.<BR/><BR/>I wish I could hug you and help you with this pain you are feeling. Emotionally and physically.<BR/><BR/>Feel better.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1419556613774990234.post-66682665815154080022007-07-29T01:18:00.000-04:002007-07-29T01:18:00.000-04:00Stop by my blog...you've won an award!Stop by my blog...you've won an award!Rick Rockhillhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/06856000993966687796noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1419556613774990234.post-60341823940144782292007-07-29T01:14:00.000-04:002007-07-29T01:14:00.000-04:00Let your emotions out here---vent, scream, cry, sh...Let your emotions out here---vent, scream, cry, share---just get it out and here is a very good place to do that.<BR/><BR/>You have friends who visit you to share with you---not all will understand everything you deal with but---all that are your friends will support you.<BR/><BR/>I did not have the same childhood you did and can not relate to all you say but I have a mother that does not understand I don't have to be here to help her, care for her--yes I love her but I don't have to do all I want I do it because I have chosen to but yet still she prefers my sister over me---and my sister does nothing for her---seldom even visits.<BR/><BR/>Just know we care and are here for you.Vickiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/15513277599184667435noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1419556613774990234.post-78654534430524292012007-07-28T23:43:00.000-04:002007-07-28T23:43:00.000-04:00Vent away. My background is almost exactly the sam...Vent away. My background is almost exactly the same, except it was my STEPfather that did the abusing. <BR/> My mum and I have NO relationship right now. <BR/> I have done my fair share of venting recently, and people kep coming back. It's funny the way that we build these little communities...It's a great feeling to know that someone cares, isn't it? <BR/> Keep venting, crying, talking, whatever it takes. We'll keep coming back. <BR/> Hugs.Biddiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07745873261311850810noreply@blogger.com