tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1419556613774990234.post4862449665583543257..comments2023-10-07T08:14:09.005-04:00Comments on Canadian Flake: HAVE YOU EVER.....Canadian flakehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/00994909147845893087noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1419556613774990234.post-60848525219472564042007-12-01T11:32:00.000-05:002007-12-01T11:32:00.000-05:00i hear you, hon. i have known the smiling on the o...i hear you, hon. i have known the smiling on the outside, dying on the inside life, too. we're here for you...the planet of janethttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11444337511603560544noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1419556613774990234.post-52200665303036434262007-11-29T18:39:00.000-05:002007-11-29T18:39:00.000-05:00we don't know each other but i read your post and ...we don't know each other but i read your post and i want you to think about something. when someone else looks so happy it may be a facade. and if you try to compare your "reality" to their "facade" you will never compare favorably. just something to think about. good luck honey...<BR/><BR/>smiles, bee<BR/><BR/>(ps: i smile all the time but right now my son, the crack head, is out again and i am dying INSIDE, so i really do know what i am saying.)Empress Bee (of the high sea)https://www.blogger.com/profile/08300140506585000934noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1419556613774990234.post-17387563935901729882007-11-29T14:28:00.000-05:002007-11-29T14:28:00.000-05:00Just came back to say I was thinking about you aft...Just came back to say I was thinking about you after my comment from last night. Hope you know from the posts above you are not alone, people care and there is always a network of love out there for you.Barbara Dodukhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03821810858403425998noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1419556613774990234.post-30427377745808789272007-11-29T13:33:00.000-05:002007-11-29T13:33:00.000-05:00What makes me so sad about your post today is that...What makes me so sad about your post today is that you have such a GREAT sense of humor and make me laugh on a regular basis with your posts.<BR/>I have never struggled with depression but hubby does so I sympathize. And as the spouse of someone who is depressed a lot, please, please, let your hubby know how you feel. It makes things so much better. We can't see in your head and many times we think it is us. Only to find out there are battles we can't imagine going on inside you. I see a load lifted when hubby opens up to me even though I don't say or do anything.<BR/>Next I will say, I do not know if you believe in God, but He is very real and personal to me, so I will pray for you, and I mean that...not just lip service.<BR/>Last but not least, please talk to Biddie or someone who is going thru the same thing. Depression is real and there is no need to suffer alone.whatevergirlhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17645824780807393590noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1419556613774990234.post-23188585278106338832007-11-29T13:27:00.000-05:002007-11-29T13:27:00.000-05:00I've experienced some of what you are going throug...I've experienced some of what you are going through but not all at once.<BR/><BR/>It's really hard to get out of these funks. I found exercise and healthy food really help.<BR/><BR/>Take care and feel better soon.nonehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07550167783969561280noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1419556613774990234.post-249128905329283972007-11-29T11:03:00.000-05:002007-11-29T11:03:00.000-05:00I love you honey. I can give you tons of "advice"...I love you honey. I can give you tons of "advice" but none of it will help, if it's not what you need. <BR/><BR/>Know I'm always here for you, to be what you need. a shoulder to cry on, and sound off board to yell at, a big snuggly bear to hug with. I'm hear baby. <BR/><BR/>You won't find a better support group than the people on here, who will talk with you. <BR/><BR/>E-mail biddie, talk to her...e-mail any and all of us if it helps baby. <BR/><BR/>I love you again, and big giant hugggsss and scrunches.Burficahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08207396583080371466noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1419556613774990234.post-39804970316047775952007-11-29T08:10:00.000-05:002007-11-29T08:10:00.000-05:00Email me. I think that we should talk - like TALK....Email me. I think that we should talk - like TALK. I DO know how you feel, I really do. Email me and I will send you my phone number if you want to chat, ok? <BR/> Hugs <BR/> biddie36@hotmail.comBiddiehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/07745873261311850810noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1419556613774990234.post-20374792446229654672007-11-29T02:41:00.000-05:002007-11-29T02:41:00.000-05:00I know you don't know me from adam, but I know exa...I know you don't know me from adam, but I know exactly how you feel. I also know that you are the only one that can make it better.<BR/><BR/>Your misery isn't the place, isn't the job, it is inside yourself. <BR/><BR/>You said you suffer from depression. Winter (lack of sunlight) can bring it on even worse. Specially when you are dissatisfied with the "stuck" feeling of your life.<BR/><BR/>What you really need to do is find something you really love to do, and just engulf yourself in it. I don't know if you have something like that but anything you can just get lost in and enjoy will totally change your mindset. Bowling, painting, dancing, swimming, crafting, whatever it is I don't know... <BR/><BR/>but if you force yourself to take YOU ONLY time, and just allow yourself that time to be away from the thoughts of your job or the "mistakes" you beat yourself up over, and just allow yourself time to be yourself without all that stress, I think you will start to see things in a different light.Barbara Dodukhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03821810858403425998noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1419556613774990234.post-10217069924036846112007-11-28T21:57:00.000-05:002007-11-28T21:57:00.000-05:00I made it through your post.Can you get a differen...I made it through your post.<BR/><BR/>Can you get a different job? You said you don't like it anyway.<BR/><BR/>How much better is that town for your husband and kids? Is it enough to offset how miserable you are there? They need to consider how it affects you, too.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com